I find these to be the symptoms of love. I like to share them. Is anyone in a dilemma whether what they are going through?
1. First and foremost symptom is your best friend turns out to be the second best.
Till date u might have shared each and everything with your best friend, let it be about your crush or your future or let it be your problems. But now, it’s the special one who fills the position. You might have never hidden anything to your best friend, but u find it very important to hide things about this special one from your friend as you want to come to a conclusion before u introduce her/him to your friend.
2. Checking your mobile phone can be the next big change u will find in yourself.
U wouldn’t have ever cared about missing your friends calls, but lately u switch on your mobile for every 5 minutes to check whether u have missed any call or check the ringing volume if its ringer has turned off. It’s all coz u don’t want to miss her/his calls or make her/him feel unattended. You always try to make her/him feel wanted and special.
3. No Attitude No Ego.
U might be the one with attitude, but in the presence of the special one you search for attitude. Ego and attitude may not co- exist with love, So if you are in love you will know it.
4. BYE-The word that do not come out at any cost!
You might have spent the whole day with her/him and are about to leave her/him in order to meet the next day, but still u can’t say bye to her/him. Parting becomes a hell. You meet her/him daily. Though you talk to her/him for hours n hours the last thing you want to say is bye. A single syllable becomes an obstacle in the throat.
5. Start and End with her.
Your day starts at her/his thought and ends at her/his thought. Nothing else really matters. Friends, parties, money nothing really matters. All that you care about is that one person whom u want to be with in your mind if physically not possible.
6. Call increase the heartbeat!!
You wait for her to call you for about an hour and suddenly u see her name displayed on your mobile screen, your heartbeat increases, your hands become numb and u tend to forget the basics of how to take a call on your mobile. But when u pick up the call and hear her saying hello u play it all cool acting as if u were busy and least expected her call. LOLZ!! Whom are u fooling ;)
7. Same to Same!!
U want her to sync with u so perfectly that u sometimes try to do things like her while many might really match. U have no bad intentions its only that u want her to notice how similar your habits are to hers.
8. Upside-Down.
Ur whole world turns upside down with the entry of that one person. This is a phenomenal change that u experience as it does not happen with any person u meet. Its that special person who has the capability to turn your world upside down with her/his entry!! But be careful, If this person has the capacity to turn your world upside down with her/his entry she/he even has the capacity to turn in upside down with her/his exit!! Never let that happen!!
9. You might not be yourself.
If you love someone you pretend the most. You always try to be conscious. You might not be yourself. You look excited, you smile a lot, you pretend to be kool….On a whole you act a lot.
10. While you have been reading this, there is a person in your mind all the time.
Each one of u might have a different experiences or opinions and please feel free to share your points too and let us know exactly when we r in true love!!
Moral: “Love means to commit oneself without guarantee, to give oneself completely in the hope that our love will produce love in the loved person.”
P.S: This article is from Sahithi. Please direct comments to her.
