Posted by
Ramesh
Sunday, July 12, 2009
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11:52 AM
This is the easiest post I have ever posted. Everything straight and easy. Thats what guys are all about. They are simple to understand, easy to crack, ready to fall...So here we go with common facts....
Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
When a guy really likes you, he'll disregard all your bad characteristics
Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.
Guys want to tell you many things but they can't. And they sure have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking!
When you touch a guy's heart, there's no turning back.
Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
When a girl says "no", a guy hears it as "try again tomorrow."
If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.
A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.
Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.
Guys think too much.
Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.
Guys don't really have final decisions.
A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.
Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!
. A guy's friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.
Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.
Guys hate girls who overreact.
If a guy says you're beautiful, that guy likes you.
If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.
When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.
P.S The most eligible bachelor is a friend of mine .....So applications accepted.
People change with time, so are their priorities.That’s the spice of life. Change for good is always welcomed. Every day you come across many new people, few might be passing clouds but quite a few of them are good enough to make a mark on you. Never lose them.
I always think the best way to explain things to others is by an example. Let me tell you a story which would explain the whole concept which I would like to discuss in this post. A year ago, I was reading an article in a newspaper which left me blank. It’s not the exact article I am posting it now, Its revised and told as a story.
There was a couple living in Hyderabad. Both of them work as daily labor, who got to work daily to feed themselves. They had two children. The elder one is a normal child, while the younger was born blind. The couples aren’t in the position to take care of the blind child as they both need to work. So they decided to join him in an orphanage. The child was brought up in the orphanage. He completed his degree. When he was told about his parents then, He was so much depressed by his parent’s decision to leave him in orphanage. He hated everyone and every relation except his girlfriend whom he met in the orphanage and was his best friend for last 20 years.
He used to tell her that “If he had eyes then I would have married you”. She used to pacify him and keep him calm. After some days, finally the boy felt lucky to hear that someone is willing to donate him their eyes. He called his girlfriend and expressed his joy. He was very happy because he would see his girlfriend and marry her and lead a happy life.
Finally, on the big day the boy got operated and was waiting for his girlfriend to arrive at the hospital room.She was there and the boy opened his eyes for the first time in his life. He was surprised to see his girlfriend. She was “Blind”.
The girl spoke to him for several hours and in the end when she was leaving, the girl asked him; Now you have eyes will you marry me?
The boy was calm for some time and said ‘No’. He instead promised her, that he would find someone who could donate eyes to her.
The girl thanked her and walked away silently and told softly…….
“TAKE CARE OF MY EYES”
By now, you might have understood what I wanted to discuss.Priorities change. But never forget the one who is behind you when you are down and depressed. Those are the ones who never expect something from you; they were for you when you need them.
Hi everyone, I am Sahithi Nallapaneni. I have been given a chance to contribute to this blog and I would be happy if I can add some more to it. Though I am not a regular blogger but still I have managed to put my thoughts on paper and here I am.
I am gonna voice out my opinion on a common and most troubling scenario that we come across today's teenagers (in fact it need not be only with teenagers, age does not matter, it can happen to anyone at any time)- LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT!
You look at someone and fall head over heels, feel dizzy and how much ever u try u cant take off that stupid smile that has stuck to your face- then my dear friend do not mistake it as love at first sight, if u do then its an entirely different story. Its simply called as lust.
The fall at first sight because of how they look- their physique, their dressing sense, their smile is simple attraction. You do not know anything about the person so do not give it the name of love, its mere attraction towards pretty things in the world. Whereas love happens when u know who they are, the things that you have in common, the sense of humor, etc. You fall in love with a person gradually. You fall in love when you know something about them. You will like the way the he/she sits or walks or talks. You will fall in love as u feel everything is unique about him/her. Its then that you feel that yes that's the one u want to spend your entire life with.
Love needs time. It needs knowing about each other. It needs understanding. It needs to be nurtured, only then love develops. Love increases as time passes. The love that is their during a couples courtship years will only increase as they have their own family. Love matures as time passes, a new love forms at every stage of life which is even more beautiful than the previous one.
I will keep it short, to love a person a relationship needs to be build with time, faithfulness, commitment and care. I know I am being very critical but anyways this is how I feel about Love at first sight as I haven't come across any success stories in this matter.
I thank Ramesh for giving me this lovely opportunity to pen down my thoughts on such a beautiful topic- LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT!
Posted by
Ramesh
Sunday, June 28, 2009
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11:59 PM
Dream girl, don't get to conclusions. Dream girl is not from my dreams, she's from my future. She was born from the symbol of what a perfect girl should be? Everyone have their view on how a perfect girl should be and so do I. There might be ample qualities of girls which make men like me irresistible. But, My list is short and sensible.
Sense of Humor: Any given chance the best quality I would look for. You might not be surprised, but definitely you would be thinking whether it deserve to be first in the list. I say Yes. No matter what happens, where you are, if someone can keep you happy, can make you laugh, I dunno about others that's what i call Happy life. I need someone who can take things cool and treat them with humor. A good sense of humor also helps us avoid fights as most of the issues are treated in a lighter way.
"Physical beauty may fade away, but my gal must know how to keep me smiling forever" In a life long commitment, this one undeniably tops the list.
Happy Friendly: Its not only me and her who take this journey called life. There are people who were part of my life and who will be there in future too. I would love a happy friendly girl who appears happy and with a smile on her face. A jolly, playful and friendly person who can easily attract and mix well with my parents, friends in that matter, anyone who come along my life. A happy go lucky kind off.
"The house doesn't rest upon ground, but upon a woman" So I need someone who can take care of parents and friends and make them part of my family.
Patience:
Its extremely rare for a man to find a girl who has patience. I am serious. when a woman is impatient, in many cases its the final nail in the coffin. I never feel proud to say i am short tempered, but that's the way i am. If someone could have the patience to withhold, I would the first to calm down.
"Patience is the best remedy for every trouble" Thoda patience thats it.
Appearance: A girl who knows how to dress like a true lady. You are a girl and you have the power to be irresistible, dress feminine and still you will attract man. The color of your dress and accessories may also do wonders on your looks. A girl who can dress like a true lady, carry herself well and not insecure with her body.
My personal fav: Half Saree.
That's my list. I know its short but definitely not easy.
"My search for perfect gal ends when I find the happiness I once felt when I was with my mother"
Posted by
Ramesh
Saturday, June 27, 2009
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1:01 PM
Gals have always been a question to crack for guys. Let me give you some facts about gals which I think I have cracked. Finally, every fact on my list might be wrong for few so, its just for fun.
If you have done something wrong and she ignores you, give her sometime to cool down before touching her heart with an apology.
When someone she likes stares and smiles deep into her eyes, she will melt.
Girls like to hear compliments, but only from people whom they like. If you are not on the list you will get to know.
A smile means a lot for girls. Nice smile, you are half way through.
A simple "Hi" can brighten a girl's day and a "Bye" can ruin it.
In a picture, a girl would first check who is standing next to her love before actually looking at herself.
If you need tips on how to flirt with a girl, contact her best friend.
When a girl say's she's sad, but she isn't crying, it means she's crying in her heart.
Being too possessive can or I say will turn a girl off.
Don't ever try to guess a girl's feeling. Just ask her.
If a girl says she can't come out with you because she is busy, Leave her.
Girls love long drives, speed and adventures. So you gotta love them too.
If you like a girl, try making her friend. Love at first sight never work with them.
Gals love to spend time with crazy guys but marry only responsible ones.
Proposal, is a great reassurance to a girl that she is beautiful.
A girl can't find anything to hate about the guy she loves, which is why its hard for her to get over him.
If a gal loves a guy, he will always be in her mind, even though she is with other guys.
If more difficult to say "I don't like you" to a girl who likes you than to say I Love you to a gal. So break it to her gently.
When the guy she likes call her for the first time, she may act uninterested but that doesn't mean she is not in love with him.
Girls hate it when a guy pays attention to them only to get close to her prettier friend.
Girls care about how the guy looks, some care about brains, but all girls want a guy who cares and loves them.
So, Last but not the least. Girls want nothing more than to feel loved. So, If you love her with whole heart and make her realize that, she would be there for you.
I know now you feel that gals are easy to crack, but the problem is no gal thinks the same as other. So its waste of time to crack gals rather, love them.
Posted by
Ramesh
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
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10:42 PM
What makes friendship the purest of all relationships? It involves an exercise of choice not compulsion. Did you ever hear the saying “Judge a person with the kind of friends he have”? It’s because you chose your friends. My father always used to say that when you die, if you've got five real friends, then you've had a great life.
I would have never realized the value of friendship, if I wouldn’t have a best friend. The only way to have a best friend is to be one. If you have a friend, who truly understands you and accepts you despite your shortcomings, then you are the luckiest person in the world. I am no one to derive an equation on friendship, everyone has a friend. I would like to share what I feel about a best friend. I always felt friends are my strength and I am undefined without them. I never bothered how important I am to them, but they are always part of my life. The most I can do to my friends is simply being their friend.
How many best friends do I have? That’s the question I have been pondering on at some point of time.
When one of my friend said “Your personality is built such that most of your good friends and I mean very good friends are scared to death when they want to express anything they feel is important to share”. I know there are friends who can talk to me anytime, anywhere regarding anything. But am I not the same with all? Yes, I am the same person with all my friends; the difference is how they see me.
In friendship, I believe a man should hold his friend unjudged, accepted, trusted, and granted to the end. If I can’t even express my feeling to a friend does that really sound friendship? Then what makes a friend different from other relations. Whoever says friendship is easy has obviously never had a true friend.
A friend is one with whom you can share everything, absolutely everything. A friend is one who knows us, but loves us anyway. A friend never leaves you when you are wrong. It doesn’t mean you tolerate your friend even if he is wrong. You tell him that he is wrong, but in the end, it is clear you are on his side. When I am happy, I can share it with any person around me but when I am sad, I always want my friend beside me. No matter what I do, what I say, a friend stays with me till the end. A Friend should be taken granted.How can there be any conditions for friendship? Friendship is divine. However rare true love may be, it is less so than true friendship.
Posted by
Ramesh
Thursday, June 18, 2009
at
4:56 PM
A Bitter Reality
As the dream of most parents I had acquired a degree in Software Engineering and joined a company based in USA, the land of braves and opportunity. When I arrived in the USA, it was as if a dream had come true. Here at last I was in the place where I want to be. I decided I would be staying in this country for about Five years in which time I would have earned enough money to settle down in India.
My father was a government employee and after his retirement, the only asset he could acquire was a decent one bedroom flat. I wanted to do some thing more than him. I started feeling homesick and lonely as the time passed. I used to call home and speak to my parents every week using cheap international phone cards. Two years passed, two years of Burgers at McDonald's and pizzas and discos and 2 years watching the foreign exchange rate getting happy whenever the Rupee value went down.
Finally I decided to get married. Told my parents that I have only 10 days of holidays and everything must be done within these 10 days. I got my ticket booked in the cheapest flight. Was jubilant and was actually enjoying hopping for gifts for all my friends back home. If I miss anyone then there will be talks. After reaching home I spent home one week going through all the photographs of girls and as the time was getting shorter I was forced to select one candidate.In-laws told me, to my surprise, that I would have to get married in 2-3 days, as I will not get anymore holidays. After the marriage, it was time to return to USA, after giving some money to my parents and telling the neighbors to look after them, we returned to USA.
My wife enjoyed this country for about two months and then she started feeling lonely. The frequency of calling India increased to twice in a week sometimes 3 times a week. Our savings started diminishing. After two more years we started to have kids. Two lovely kids, a boy and a girl, were gifted to us by the almighty. Every time I spoke to my parents, they asked me to come to India so that they can see their grand-children.
Every year I decide to go to India¦ but part work, part monetary conditions prevented it. Years went by and visiting India was a distant dream. Then suddenly one day I got a message that my parents were seriously sick. I tried but I couldn't get any holidays and thus could not go to India ... The next message I got was my parents had passed away. I was depressed. My parents had passed away without spending time with their grand children.
After couple more years passed away, much to my children's dislike and my wife's joy we returned to India to settle down. I started to look for a suitable property, but to my dismay my savings were short and the property prices had gone up during all these years. I had to return to the USA..
My wife refused to come back with me and my children refused to stay in India... My 2 children and I returned to US after promising my wife I would be back for good after two years. Time passed by, my daughter decided to get married to an American and my son was happy living in USA... I decided that had enough and Wind-up everything and returned to India... I had just enough money to buy a decent 02 bedroom flat in a well-developed locality.
Now I am 60 years old and the only time I go out of the flat is for the routine visit to the nearby temple. My faithful wife has also left me and gone to the holy abode.
Sometimes I wondered was it worth all this?
My father, even after staying in India, Had a house to his name and I too have the same nothing more.
I lost my parents and children for just ONE EXTRA BEDROOM.
Looking out from the window I see a lot of children dancing. This damned cable TV has spoiled our new generation and these children are losing their values and culture because of it. I get occasional cards from my children asking I am alright. Well at least they remember me.
But the question still remains 'was all this worth it?'
I am still searching for an answer.................!!!
