Love or Attraction?


Is it love or just an infatuation?

I strongly believe in love, after all there is nothing without love. However there is slight difference between love and infatuation. Opposite poles attract that’s what science taught us. It’s the same with a gal and a boy. They tend to attract each other and if you call it love? you hate to be wrong about this kind of thing. According to present generation, Age was never a qualification for love but I say big no. Anyone who think they are in love should be matured enough to judge whether its love or a mere attraction.

I don’t want to say I am an expert in differentiating love from attraction but as I always believe the situations you face would definitely teach you a lesson. As I mentioned in my previous post, I sincerely believe in love marriages over arranged and I am a strong supporter of the statement love marriages never fail. People, who believe in love, never part away. Society believes love marriages are mere failures. In love marriages which fail, they are not in love; they were just attracted.

Let me put my views on love and attraction and strictly it’s my opinion I might be wrong. Everyone has their own definition for love so do I. “Love is unconditional”.

If you really love someone you would not care if he is wrong or right, rich or poor, intelligent or stupid, tall or short. Only thing that matters is how much you love? If you judge people, then you have no time to love them.

People tend to mistake love for attraction. Attraction is initial interest in two people which draw them together and love holds them forever. Love grows with distance and time, while attraction fades. Someone likes you for what you are that’s love. Someone wants you the way they like that attraction. If you are in a fight, love cries, attraction blames. If you have made a mistake, love still holds your hand and attraction leaves you away. Attraction believes in eyes and love believes in heart. Attraction leads to possessiveness, love leads to understanding. Finally, when you are in love you can’t fall asleep because reality is better than dreams.

Love is giving freedom, confidence, faith and secure feeling. If you want to know whether you truly love someone? Don’t think about how happy you would be with her but think how worst you would be without her. I always believed in one line “If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, it’s yours forever, If it doesn’t, then it was never yours”

After all this If you really think you are in love you are lucky!! Go n Party!!

Moral: We were given: Two hands to hold. To legs to walk. Two eyes to see. Two ears to listen. But why only one heart? Because the other was given to someone else. For us to find.

11 comments:

  Sahithi

June 16, 2009 at 1:14 AM

So true!! one should be able to differentiate between love and attraction..but there are people who cannot realize that they are in love and by the time they realize its too late...anyways for all those in love and for all those who are yet to find their other heart All the best! Realize your love and try to keep it with u..

  Sanju

June 16, 2009 at 5:15 AM

attracting post about love...keep posting....

  Phanindra Ketavarapu

June 16, 2009 at 7:15 AM

I like the moral...good one brother like always...

  Unknown

June 16, 2009 at 8:40 AM

katti la undi ee post. awesome amma. very gud points

  Ramesh

June 16, 2009 at 10:20 AM

thanks you all.

@phani entra moral bagundha mari post baledha....

  Phanindra Ketavarapu

June 16, 2009 at 11:05 AM

era joka...post baagundi...but moral nachindi...so ala cheppa...daanilo chaala thought process kanapadindi...anyways kaasepu taravaata naa blog chaduvu...deeni laagaane...kaani nee Love concept kaadu...edo variety ga raastunna...

  Deepthi Paladugu

June 16, 2009 at 11:14 AM

really loving post man.lemme go n find my love [:P]..

  Phanindra Ketavarapu

June 16, 2009 at 11:51 AM

this one...

http://pk-thethoughtpost.blogspot.com/2009/06/i-believe-in-love-its-karmapersonality.html

  Death God

June 16, 2009 at 5:37 PM

Gudd one dude..I am too busy to find my other half..let herself find out n come upto me say dat i am her LOVE..ladies 1st alwayyyyyssssssss!!!!!

  Ramesh

June 16, 2009 at 9:51 PM

hahah arey raju gaa ee post lo attraction gurinchi antha baga rasanu ante antha nee dhaya raa....nuvve best example attraction kii hahahhaha.Everyone with me rite....

  Phanindra Ketavarapu

June 16, 2009 at 10:54 PM

yuppo...very true...indaake Illeana kavaali anta...ento pichi maa lokam...lolz